Friday, June 22, 2012

6 Tips Before Marriage



6 Tips Before Marriage

1.
If you want to marry learn to share control

2.
You must like, respect and love yourself before you can share your life with someone else

3.
If you have to justify why you are with them—he or she isn’t the one
Many try to ignore the red flags even though they are obviously there. This is one of them

4.
Don’t sleep together before marriage
It’s a hard thing to do and I commend those who have the discipline to. For those who do sleep together before marriage, don’t beat yourself up about it everyone has free will and current traditions are different than the past. Be aware that sex can blind us at times thus absence of it could help make clear decisions for one big decision

5.
Wait until late twenties or early thirties to get married
This allows time to get to know more about self. Yes in a committed relationship your spouse is supposed to build you help, but it is not their sole responsibility. You are your sole responsibility thus you have to put in the energy to become who you want to be to your best ability before getting married

6.
Be able to support yourself and live by yourself before you commit to living with someone else for life

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